Howdy!!! Where do i start? I guess by saying that I have been looking for my "Meant to be" for many years now. Im sure if you are reading this you've already seen my pictures...and YES I do have a full head of thick hair under all those hats.
I am 5'10" 185# with short trimmed brown hair and hazel/brown eyes which I'm told is one of my best assets. I am single 33 year old who believes in love and understanding and faithfulness and even a solid commitment! I live alone on my ranch with my only companion being a 2 year old English Bulldog named Dolly. As for personality, I have plenty of that too...I?m not just not the type of person you will meet in a bar, my life goes deeper than a bottle of beer in a smokey room. Don?t get me wrong, I like to go out and dance, but before ya ask me to dance you better know how to lead. I am a simple farm raised boy. I have a very involved loving family who may not approve of my lifestyle, but they love and accept me and whom ever i choose to be with.
For beginners, I am looking for someone who actually has a heart and still believes in the art of romance and love...I am searching for that one person who believes that gay men can partner and stay together for life, a soul mate (if you will). I want someone who knows how to have fun and I can have fun with but can still be responsible and retain dignity and integrity. I believe in love at first sight/meeting, and believe that the heart always knows. Even though my heart doesn?t have eyes, I still follow its blinding lead into whatever fate has in store for me.
To me, a partner is someone in which there is NOTHING between us...nothing to separate us...I want everything Open and natural with no hang-ups or draw backs...full acceptance! (and that applies In and Out of the bed)
Don?t be afraid of the unknown. My favorite saying would have to be, "don?t live life afraid of dying or you have lived your life dead!" I?m not hung up on what you drive, what you have, what your job title is, or what your status is, however, I do care that you have A job and are a productive citizen. Your amount of income is not important to me, but your ability to spend time with me is. Some of my strongest beleifs are that I will ALWAYS root for the underdog and will always do what I can do give him/her the upper hand to get on top of a situation. I don't beleive that people are born bad, but more a product of their environment and decisions that they consciously made. I dont put my trust in people who think they are better than anyone else and therefore will generally avoid being involved in the "popular" crowd in a social situation. Often times, people think im a snob because of the way I react in social situations, but if they would take the time to meet me instead of judging me at a distance, they would find that im pretty much the type that wont speak until spoken to cause I was raised to beleive that it's better to keep your mouth shut and let people think your'e stupid than to open your mouth and prove them right!
You ask what turns me on...well...I generally go for a "mature" man...someone who is stable, distinguished, and more often than not, between the ages of 40-55, however, there are always exceptions to that rule. Salt and pepper or even balding is definately a plus and I prefer facial hair, however, once again that is not a requirement. Aggressive, assertive, dominant men with a good self esteem (but not cocky or vain) almost always catch my eye and steal my heart.
A fantasy date for me would be to listen to some good classic country music while lounging on some deck chairs havin a few strawberry daiquiris while grillin steaks out on the deck with some good conversation, afterwards, do some slow dancing to get better acquainted (remember?I?m a follow) and end up in the bed of a truck or on a blanket in the middle of my field gazing at the BIG Kansas stars and moon talking all night and getting to know each other...who knows what might end up happenin...Im a pretty good wrestler!
Last but not least, I believe that life can turn on a dime?you got one you?re ready to invest in me?
